On the social network Instagram, M. Lipnius held a Q&A session during which followers could ask him questions of interest. Mindaugas was more open than ever and agreed to share his posts with the news portal Žmonės.lt.
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When followers asked what emotions overwhelmed him after the divorce, the famous man said that feelings changed, but he believes that everything will be fine now.
“It always goes like this: first – huge anger, sadness, indifference, uncertainty. Thank God, I didn’t have a major depression because I didn’t allow it. I got up every day as usual, kept the same routine, tried to sleep as well and as long as possible, but, you know, honestly, now there is a certain lightness because you realize that you can’t change anything, and when you reach the bottom, everything should be easier from there,” M. Lipnius revealed on social media.
Asked whether he remained himself in the relationship or had to adapt to the other person, Mindaugas admitted that both have to adapt in a relationship.
“Someone said that relationships are a compromise, and both parties must adapt. In my opinion, it is very rare that you don’t have to try at all and can be completely yourself while everything suits everyone. Unless the relationship is fake, and the person who adapts to everything… I doubt they do it sincerely. Apparently, I didn’t become the person I needed to be because if I had, maybe the marriage wouldn’t have failed. But we are not robots, we are humans, and there were moments when I tried to adapt but failed,” he said.
It is no secret that divorce is a very difficult and painful stage, which sometimes takes a long time to get through. Still, Mindaugas said he is resilient in life and tries not to lose strength.
“I have experienced a lot, had many worries, and gone through many hardships, and I always told myself that you can’t even imagine how much you can carry on your shoulders, how many problems you can endure. It is very important never to doubt yourself, never to be afraid. No one will pull you out when trouble happens – only you can do that,” the businessman shared his thoughts.
When asked whether the divorce came like a thunderbolt out of a clear sky or if it was a gradual process, Mindaugas did not hide that there were indeed attempts to save the marriage: “There were many conversations, attempts to strengthen the connection, but I really didn’t expect everything to end the way it is now.”
Asked about the reason for the divorce, the well-known man said that many things added up.
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“There is no single answer. I wouldn’t want to air it publicly, and I really avoided it. I’m not proud of the past thick times, but it simply became impossible to stay silent because what is happening is hard to comprehend. Many people, partners trust, trusted me, and I would feel bad staying silent because people think everything is fine, as if I am behind everything… But that is no longer the case. That’s why I spoke about all the relationships, the family’s internal problems,” Mindaugas said.
Curious followers asked whether the breakup of the marriage was caused by the possible appearance of another person in Simona’s life, to which Mindaugas said he would refrain from commenting: “I don’t know, you should ask someone else about that. I can feel one way, and the other party completely differently.”
Although the collapsing marriage brought much pain, the man claimed to feel peace because of his efforts.
“Strange as it may sound, I regret nothing. From my side, I feel I did everything to save the family. After that, when the divorce started, I feel I did everything to make it as respectful and calm as possible. The only thing I want is to resolve everything as quickly as possible because I really regret the time,” M. Lipnius revealed.
Talking about how the attitude of those around him and his circle of friends changed after such news, the interviewee was pleased with the unexpected change.
“I was surprised that more people came back in my case. Those with whom the connection was very distant or even broken came back. Classmates, old friends called, we met. As for the circle of people after the divorce… Strange as it sometimes happens, it has increased for me,” the man rejoiced.
Followers also inquired about the fate of the couple’s joint business and what he plans to do next. Mindaugas admitted that final answers are still taking shape.
“For many years, all my attention was focused on developing and expanding our family business ‘Simitri,’ and it is really hard to cut everything off. Only in the last few days have I been thinking about what to do. Life changes, you have to accept reality as it is. I am hardworking, not afraid of work, so I have ideas to create and do something. When all thoughts settle, I will share them,” the businessman said.
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