Here are 4 intimacy secrets that men often hide from women:
1. They want you to bring fire into the bedroom
Perhaps you feel the same way about your husband? Perhaps you would like him to really “bring fire” into the bedroom occasionally? So, how can you ignite passion? Here are some tips, writes “Your Tango”.
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- Initiate: If your husband usually initiates intimacy, surprise him occasionally and start first, for example, by kissing him in a very seductive way.
- Use toys: another great way to spice things up is to incorporate toys into your love life. This can start with something as simple as massage oil, but don’t stop there. All of this can really heat things up.
- Dress for him: it probably doesn’t even need to be mentioned, but men are very visually aroused by this. So, use it to your advantage. If you usually wear pajamas or other “regular” nightwear, why not try something spicier, tighter, and more revealing? This is one of the simplest and quickest ways to excite your husband, especially if he doesn’t expect it.
- Talk dirty: talking dirty with your husband is a great way to make intimacy even spicier. Being explicit is not necessary. Gradually expand your comfort zone here.
They like it when you take control, but…
Most guys occasionally like it when their girlfriend or wife takes control of the situation, “dictates the solutions.” Not always, but about 10 percent of the time is perfect to keep things interesting. Why not give it a try?
No action? That can be disappointing
Just lying in bed and no movement will not add passion to your intimate life, but rather – it will even spoil it. Get involved – it’s incredibly attractive; take action and participate in all of it together.
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They really can’t read your mind
This last secret is important if you want your love life to be interesting and fun for both of you. Some men have an incredibly hard time noticing signs that something is wrong, or even signs indicating how you feel. So, instead of expecting your husband to understand what you want, what you need, or how you feel, it is much more effective to speak openly.
The saying “Praise what you want more of” works perfectly for men. So, if there’s a position or technique you like, or something he does when kissing you that you enjoy, don’t be afraid to clearly express it with praise: “I like it when you do that” or “That’s so sexy!”.
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