I remember when my daughter was about two years old, I told her: “You WANT to play, and I NEED to make dinner.”
At that moment, it seemed completely right. Making dinner was necessary and urgent, while playing was not necessary and could wait until the work was done. One was a need, the other a want, and I was deciding which was which.
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Later I realized that this kind of thinking actually just complicates everything.
